If you’re facing an unplanned pregnancy, you may feel like you have a thousand thoughts running through your mind—how this will impact your future, what your options are, and how to talk to your partner about everything you’re going through. One of the hardest steps can be opening up about sexual health and the pregnancy itself.
At Ivy Women’s Center, we understand how overwhelming this season can feel. As a women’s health provider, we’re here to support you with information and resources so you don’t have to navigate these conversations alone.
Why These Conversations Are Important
Even though it may feel uncomfortable at first, talking with your partner about sexual health can:
- Build trust during an uncertain time
- Help you both understand each other’s expectations and concerns
- Encourage shared responsibility for health and protection
- Create a stronger foundation as you face decisions together
Tips for Talking to Your Partner
Here are a few ways to approach the conversation that can make it feel a little less overwhelming:
- Choose a private, calm moment. Pick a time when you won’t be rushed or distracted. Privacy gives you space to talk openly.
- Lead with care. You don’t need the perfect words—simply letting your partner know you care about both of your well-being sets the tone.
- Be honest. Share how you’re feeling and what you’re concerned about. Whether it’s the pregnancy, testing, or protection moving forward, being upfront invites honesty in return.
- Listen, too. Your partner may have his own feelings and questions. Allowing him to share helps keep the conversation two-sided.
- Bring in outside support. If it feels like too much to handle on your own, a women’s health provider can walk with you, answer your questions, and provide clarity for both of you.
Where to Turn for Support
You don’t have to carry the weight of these conversations by yourself. Ivy Women’s Center offers free and confidential services—including pregnancy testing, limited ultrasounds, and education about sexual health. Our team is here to listen, provide medical insight, and give you the support you need to take the next step.
FAQs About Talking to Your Partner
Q: How do I bring up sexual health with my partner if I’m pregnant?
A: Start by choosing a calm, private moment. Lead with care by letting him know you value your health and his. Honesty and a gentle tone can help open the door to meaningful conversation.
Q: What if my partner avoids talking about pregnancy or sexual health?
A: If he isn’t ready to talk, don’t give up. Sometimes it helps to suggest setting aside a specific time. You can also invite him to join you at a women’s health provider consultation so you both hear the same information together.
Q: How do I ask my partner about STI testing?
A: Keep the focus on care and protection for both of you. Consider framing it as a shared step, rather than a demand. Ivy Women’s Center offers free STD testing for chlamydia and gonorrhea on the first and third Saturday of each month from 10 a.m. – 1 p.m. by appointment. Testing is offered to females 15 and up and males ages 15-19.
Q: Can Ivy Women’s Center help me talk to my partner?
A: Yes. Our team is here to provide information, answer questions, and support you both in navigating your next steps. You’re welcome to bring your partner with you to your appointment.
